What is the relationship between sex and love?
Sex and love interact in many dimensions: physiological, psychological, and social.
1.Love and sex are considered harmonious and mutually reinforcing. In principle, sex with the person you love should be more enjoyable.
However, not everyone can achieve this ideal state: most people do agree that "having sex with the person you love is the most enjoyable", but some people believe that "good sex can happen regardless of whether the two parties are in love."
Another possibility that love has a counterproductive effect on sex is that people in love will be anxious about pleasing each other, always want to appear in the best posture, and always want to show their best side, which will interfere with actual sexual response.
2.Sexual attraction to love is a common factor in the generation of love, and even the element of sexual desire may dominate the entire process of love.
People usually think that because sex is highly pleasurable, sharing it will deepen feelings, but this model of positive reinforcement seems to be effective only within a limited range - if it is only physical satisfaction (without emotional foundation), then the love generated by sex is not much more than the love for the chef because of a favorite dish.
In addition, just as sex is the source of ecstasy, it can also be the source of pain. For example, the disharmony of sex life will have a bad impact on intimate relationships. Therefore, when you want to establish and maintain a deep intimate relationship, sex needs to be valued, and it can become a lubricant to promote the relationship.
